Welp
in my rush to finish blogging yesterday, I forgot to mention an
important detail. Friday was the day the families came to pick us up
from the hotel. I'd like you to try to imagine a scene similar to
that of a pet shop. About 50 puppies lined the sidewalk waiting
eagerly for a family to come by, pick them up, and take them home.
All of us were nervous as hell and as the number of us dwindled down,
nerves turned to excitement. I was picked up towards the beginning
and I have to admit, I probably was the most nervous. At one point,
there was this older senegalese woman who came on to the scene like a
wind of laughter and colors. She was wearing a bright turquoise and
purple traditional dress with a purple head wrap. She was in fact, a
very vibrant woman and greeted everyone with loud laughter. When
everyone first saw her all of the girls, including me, giggled and
smiled wondering who's mother she'd be. Then Alain, the housing
director, said, “Marissa, votre mama est ici.” Everyone burst
into laughter because they thought we were such a good match. She
gave me a big hug and helped me put my suit cases into the taxi.
I
thought the ride home was going to be a long one, but it actually
took less than 5 min. My home is on the outskirts of Sacre Coeur, the
borderline between Sacre Coeur 3 and Mermoz. A little farther from
the other students, but nonetheless, perfect walking distance from
the school. I have to say, with respect of course, that I wasn't
expecting the house that I came home to. It is...well, rather huge.
On the outside it is a pale white building three floors high if you
count the terrace and on the inside the floors are covered with tile.
The walls are mostly white with some chipping paint here and there,
but all in all, it is probably on the higher end of senegalese
households. My room is on the second floor where I have a bed, a
nightstand, a dresser, and a table to put my belongings. I also have
a giant white mosquito net with holes in it... :), I'm sure it is
going to prove to be most effective.
My
family also happens to be quiet found of animals as Yaye owns 2 dogs.
One is called Chocolat and the other Jacquier, we also have 4 goats
who make noises all night long. They have become my sporadic alarm
clocks that inspire laughter. Two of the goats are pregnant, so maybe
I'll get to see some baby goats by May! Yaye says that if they are
born while I'm here she'll name them after me :) and well, that's
always a treat.
When
I finally got to talking to Yaye, the conversation started out very
slowly as I was quite timid. I had forgotten pretty much everything
they had shared with us in the family orientation but as soon as I
asked about the family she got excited and showed me pictures of her
immediate and extended family. Yaye has 4 sons and 3 girls. One of
her sons is married to a german lady, and one of her daughters is
married to a Frenchman. Another son who's name is Edward, just
recently got married and I met him and his wife today. She is also
pregnant!!! (also being...her and the goats lol). Despite how much I
wanted to touch her belly and talk about her pregnancy, it is taboo
to do so in Senegalese culture, at least we were told so. So I'll
have to suppress my American tendencies to spoil and interrogate
pregnant women for now. Yaye also has 4 grand children and I believe
I'll have the fortune to meet 3 of them.
After
sharing pictures of our families, (I only had one picture of my
family that I had taken at the airport—and my senegalese family was
thrilled to see my father wearing a cowboy hat—way to be tejano
dad), our attention was turned to the television set to watch the
news. If you don't already know, it is a very important political
time for Senegal as the elections are being held in February.
Democracy is still a relatively new concept here in Senegal, as the
country was socialist until 2000 when the youth movement elected Wade
and the democratic party. Friday was the day the candidates were
announced by the council and the entire country was tuning in to see
whether or not Wade (the current president) would be approved as a
candidate. I recommend researching this in order to understand the
situation in its entirety because there is plenty of history to be
covered here, but nevertheless, allow me to attempt to explain the
circumstances that currently worry the Senegalese people. It's quite
a scandal actually. The majority of Senegalese people, including my
family and everyone I've met so far, believe that Wade has been in
office for too long and that he is too old to run again.
Nevertheless, there is a council (who happened to be appointed by
Wade) that chooses candidates approved to run “based upon a list of
criteria” although the public is unaware of that criteria.
On
friday, my family and I were watching the news in order to find out
whether or not Wade had been approved as a candidate because if he is
approved there is a good chance that he will be “elected”
president. Let me explain it to you how Yaye explained it to me, if
his candidacy is approved despite the wishes of the Senegalese
people, it means that he stole his way into gaining approval by
bribing the council. Since Wade is a millionaire, it will be easy for
him to buy the electorate by paying citizens to vote for him (at the
very least). If Wade becomes president, “democracy” in Senegal
won't exactly be democratic and Senegal will be faced with an
individual who has manipulated democratic processes into a sort of
dictatorship.
So,
needless to say, my entire family was glued to the TV and my cousin
was listening to the radio. When the news finally came, my family
reacted with sounds of anguish. They discussed among themselves in
Wolof so I didn't really understand what was going on but I figured
by the general sentiment of the room. All I could think was...damn.
My mom stayed up watching the TV last night, as there was live
footage of the protests, and I tried my best to accompany her. I
eventually retired to the room where I listened to music until I fell
asleep.
Saturday
morning, I awoke to the realization that I had forgotten my shampoo
and conditioner in the Taxi. Luckily, I had travel size soaps in my
suitcase so I went ahead and took a very cold shower. The bathroom
here is set up quite curiously if I may add. It is probably about 5
feet in length and 3 or 4 ft in width...or if you're looking for an
english translation...tiny as hell lol. Just about the size to fit a
toilet. The shower is actually hooked to the wall and falls just in
front of the toilet, so I'm basically taking a shower standing next
to a toilet. Yes, it is an awkward situation since I'm not used to
getting water everywhere but I actually find it quite
ingenious...what a way to save space!
After
my shower I went down stairs to have breakfast and Yaye and Gizele
were there to greet me. Breakfast was bread, oranges, and chocolate
with tea. I should take time to mention here, that not all Senegalese
families eat around the bowl. For example, my family is catholic and
does not eat around the bowl, they're eating habits are more
westernized as they use plates, forks, and spoons. After breakfast
Gizele took me to buy some shampoo and upon my return we watched an
American movie together (Honey 2 dubbed in French) and talked about
school, languages, and life. I enjoyed talking to Gizele although she
is terribly soft-spoken—she wants to be an engineer like her uncles
and can speak 4 or 5 languages including spanish. I still haven't met
Angelique because she's been bedridden and ill for the past couple of
days, but I'm hoping to have a conversation with her because Yaye
told me today she works with Human Rights and Women's Rights. I
laughed at the similarities. Really Alain (housing director)? Could
you have been more right on? Two words—you rock.
Later
on in the day I decided to venture on my own into Sacre Coeur 3 to
see if I could find where my friend Rosie was living. I remembered
what her neighborhood looked like since they had showed us on the
tour of Sacre Coeur and I was determined to visit her since she lost
her phone and is excommunicated from the world. I walked for about 5
min and got to an alley I recognized. I saw a shop keeper and stopped
to greet (always greet before you ask anything!!) and then asked
whether or not he knew where the American was staying. After a brief
description he confirmed it being Rosie and he told me she was
staying to the house on the left of his store. I knocked on the door
and Rosie's sister came to the door. I said hello and asked if Rosie
was in and she said yes (at the same time Rosie walked out) and we
exchanged hellos and excitement :). Rosie showed me around her home
and introduced me to her family—2 brothers and 2 sisters I believe.
They were all very hospitable and loving and Rosie's mom (who was a
very sweet sweet woman) said I was always welcomed to come see her
baby (rosie hehe). The family invited me to have lunch with them and
I sat around the bowl. Rosie's family did eat around the bowl but
with a slight variation, the usage of spoons. I was hesitant to eat
first, since I had just had lunch at my house, but I didn't want to
be rude since they were gracious enough to offer. Also, I'm pretty
sure none of it was vegetarian, but I did eat a bit of the rice and
carrots to be polite. Afterwards I thanked them and mentioned that I
was vegetarian and already had had lunch. We had a pleasant
conversation and after lunch Rosie's brother made tea touba which was
delicious—best I've had yet, while we watched the incredibles
dubbed in French (Monsieur Incroyable buahaha..) Rosie and I also
took turns trying to make the tea, which consists of transferring the
tea rapidly from one small glass into another in order to mix
properly and gather foam--the more foam, the better the tea--and
needless to say, we failed and spilled the tea lol.
Rosie
came to visit my house when we had finished eating and on our way
home we ran in to Mackee who happened to be one of the 7 guys in the
program. I invited him to my home as well and when we arrived my mom
greeted them happily and gave them a tour of my home. They were
impressed by the size just as much as I was. Edward (my brother) and
Serene (his pregnant wife) were sitting on the couch when we arrived
and I introduced myself and my friends. We all watched french
comedians after that and drank Bissap juice together.
I
think this blog may be running a bit long so I think I'll cut it off
here for now. I'll end it by saying I really enjoyed my day because I
had the fortune of meeting Rosie's family and Edward and Serene—all
who were very kind to me.
I
hope you guys are doing well and not missing me too much! I'm having
such a wonderful time here in Senegal :).
(this is covering Friday and Saturday; Since I don't have Wi-fi at my house I got a bit behind. So I'll just start again tomorrow although today (monday) was my first day of school :) )
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